Hi all it's Cody! We don't have any kids in our house, but we know that many of you do!! Today many kids are heading "Back-to-School". This is the time that many cats and woofies who live with kids may start
to feel lonely or experience separation anxiety. You don't have to have kids for your pets to experience separation anxiety. The signs of separation anxiety and the tips offered to help deal with it are beneficial to anyone who has pets and might be leaving home for a period of time due to any sort of a change in routine, (new job, travel etc.).
A PARTIAL LIST OF SIGNS OF
SEPARATION ANXIETY:
Improper Urination-many kitties could choose to not use their litter box and woofies many have accidents in the house.
Excessive Barking or Howling- we once had two woofies who lived in our building that used to do this when their parents weren't home. It used to work the woofies into a frenzy and can be concerning to those listening to it happening for many hours.
Change of Appetite-not eating or overeating (ok, I overeat but that's totally different!)
Pacing-that is often a sign of an anxious pet!
Feeling sad and lonely sure isn't fun!
Recently Mom and I were offered the chance to listen to Purina Veterinarian, Dr.Kurt Venator share his Top 5 Tips to Address Separation Anxiety in Pets during Back-to-School Season, and since we want to help kitties and woofies who experience this to feel better, here they are! (Oh and some have a little editorial from MOI!!)
HOW DO YOU HELP YOUR PET?
1) Get your pet into a routine. Pets love routine because it
makes them feel secure. If I don't get my meals at the time that I am used to eating, watch out! During the summer, kids are always around to make
things entertaining and exciting for their pets. When they suddenly disappear,
some cats and dogs will feel sad and confused while others may experience real
separation anxiety. As a result it is important that pet owners help get their pet
acclimated to the change by replacing the old schedule with a new one, such as
allocating time to play with them after work or keeping a consistent schedule
when coming and going from the house.
2) Burn off some energy. Some pets deal with separation anxiety
by becoming destructive (e.g. howling, chewing on objects or other parts of the
house). A great way to keep your dog from doing this is by taking them on a
walk in the morning before you leave the house to help burn off some of that
extra energy. For cats, consider playing with them at night as well – whether
it’s making them chase a feather wand or play with a ball.
3) Create an interactive environment: Back-to-school season is
a great time to buy your pet a new, interactive toy to play with. This will
help mentally stimulate them and keep them occupied during the day when the
kids are away at school. For dogs, chew toys are a way for them to relieve
their anxiety, frustration and boredom. For cats, creating a play area where they
can be entertained even when you’re not home, can help ease the separation
anxiety. This can include having things like scratching posts or cat furniture
in your home.
4) Turn up the tunes and start with baby steps. Try leaving
some soothing music on at your home while everyone is out of the house. The
music will help drown out distracting noises that your cat and dog may mistakenly
associate with the kids coming home. Some animal shelters have even found that
playing calming music helps the pets in their facilities relax. My Mom and Dad often turn the TV on for Dakota and I, and when they return home they find us in the living room together, right in front of the TV! Additionally,
get your pets comfortable with noises that may indicate your departure. For
example, jingle your car keys occasionally and practice opening and closing the
door to get them accustomed to noises that could increase anxiety.
5) Spend time with your pet. It’s important to remember that
while you may have had a long day, your pet may have been sitting at home
feeling lonely waiting for you to come home. Spending some quality time with
your pet at the end of the day is critical to helping keep them active and
mentally sharp. It may be tough to fit into a busy work or school schedule, but be sure
to build some interactive time – whether it’s a walk or cuddle session – to
show your pets you care.
I sure hope that these tips help all of you kitties and woofies who might be feeling sad when the little humans head to school!
You can get more information by visiting www.petcentric.com.
Love, Cody
Thanks for all the great tips!
ReplyDeleteyou are most welcome! Our pleasure! Thanks for YOURS today too! Love, Cody
DeleteGrreat tips !
ReplyDeleteAt our house the radio is always on and my mom-person have up till now sometimes fill my treatball so I have something to do while she is at work. We are not sure how we are solwing this with a woffie in the house ? I guess he will smash my treatball and take all the treats *MOL*
XOXO
Charlie you have a smart mama!! The treatball is a great idea too, we do that for Dakota but not Cody, maybe I should do it for Cody too. Good idea! You may want to get a baby gate (if you don't already have one) to keep Conrad away from your treats. We have one set up to separate Cody's toys and litter so that Dakota can't get to it. Cody also eats in the kitchen and Dakota isn't permitted to (aren't we awful!?)...I didn't want to have to worry about having him under foot in our small kitchen while I cook (with his long fur!!), and I wanted Cody to have a "haven" away from him if he wants one. If I give Cody a treat ball it would be well away from Dakota! xoxo
DeleteGreat tips. It's good to be able to recognize separation anxiety whether you have kids or not!
ReplyDeleteYep! That's why I mentioned above that the same tips can be applied to any significant change in schedule, I totally agree!
Deletegreat advice, my dogs wait by the door for the school bus in the late afternoon for the kids to come home!!
ReplyDeleteoh that is adorable! Isn't it amazing how they "KNOW?"
DeleteHow cute is this post!!! I didn't think of how going back to school/work affects pets but these little tips really help! xo, Biana -BlovedBoston
ReplyDeletethanks so much! Yep it truly does and the tips that the Dr. provided are great!! Have a great day! xoxo
DeleteFantastic post mew guys, we really enjoyed it - GREAT TIPS! PAWESOME!
ReplyDeletePurrs
Basil & Co xox
Thanks so much furiends!!!
Deletexoxo
I remember all the years poor Admiral had to be by herself but the TV was on. I worked 12 hr shift rotation with lots of OT. She slept with me days and nights. That was about our only time together except the days I was off...after I got all the shopping, appointments and chores done. It's a shame and looking back, I wish I could have done more and better for her.
ReplyDeleteNooooo!!!!!! I know from reading your blog that Admiral was deeply, deeply loved and she knew that too!
DeleteIt was the same for me and my Angel Bobo. He was an "only" like Admiral and I lived alone with him for most of his life and was gone virtually the same hours as you...I was gone sooo much! But he knew he was deeply loved.
My life (and yours), was different at the time and we do what we have to do!!!!
xoxoxo
I noticed that pets pick up on their humans' feelings somehow. If you tell them in a relaxed way that you will be back very soon, they'll understand. But if you panic in response to their separation anxiety, it usually gets worse.
ReplyDeleteGenerally I agree with that. Frankly, mostly for trips to the vet. I have never had a problem with any of my pets going to the vet because I try to "keep it light" Admittedly, it's harder if it isn't a "wellness visit.", but I try to keep it light and I sing to them in the car. If I am not the one driving, I sit in the back seat with Cody and Dakota while Dad drives...if I am driving (that would usually be Cody with me), I turn his carrier so that I can talk to him and pet him while I drive.
DeleteCody and Dakota don't have separation anxiety, Cody gets anxious if we are home past meal time, then we find him at the door pacing when we return lol.
I used to be calm with my Angel Bobo whenever I left and he was ALWAYS waiting at the window for me, didn't matter how calm I was. He was the "only" pet and I think that has something to do with it too. I think when they have company (another pet with them), they aren't as stressed.
Excellent post. My kitties are lucky, we never leave them alone for more than a half hour and when we have to be out longer they have Grammie to come stay with them.
ReplyDeletethank you!! They sure ARE lucky for sure!!
DeleteThose were darn good tips! Here's another tip, get that boy cat 6 sisters to keep him entertained...and awake!
ReplyDeleteMOL!!! MOL!!! MOL!!!
DeleteXOXO
Yep, sage advice here. Our Little Bit is on a routine and she will tell you if you aren't on time. It's a good thing.
ReplyDeleteHave a purrfect day Cody. My best to your peeps. ♥♥♥
Little Bit is like Cody, OMG does he ever have an internal clock! I think ALL cats do, even more so than dogs. Dakota is our "sleeping beauty", if Cody didn't wake everyone up to eat (BEFORE the crack of dawn), Dakota would sleep til at least 8....seriously! Sending love back to you! Hope you are having the BEST birthday ever! xoxoxo
DeleteI think I am the only one suffering from back to school anxiety in my house. My girls first day was today, so big change in the house. :(
ReplyDeleteღ husky hugz ღ frum our pack at Love is being owned by a husky!
((((hugs)))) read your blog earlier and I could feel the sadness :( It was one of your shortest posts ever!! All will be fine!!! xoxoxo
DeleteWe love you!
Cody you sure do give some excellent advise. Mom and Dad are stay at home peeps now so we rarely have any time we are all alone, at least for very long.
ReplyDeleteThank you but it was the good doctor who gave the tips! (we already do some of them though!) I was the messenger ;)
DeleteMom and Dad are "homebodies" too, but when they are gone it is usually for HOURS!!!
Love, Cody
Good tips friend. Thank goodness we don't deal with this stuff
ReplyDeleteLily & Edward
thank you and you are welcome!!!!! Thank goodness you don't deal with it is right!!! Love, Cody
DeleteGreat post Caren! Wes sure gets separation anxiety here! Yous should has seen us last week when Mommy was gone for a night visiting her Aunt. Its funny, cuz when she was going to Calgary last year, Cinnamon, Kozmo and Jo Jo hardly noticed...this summer, Daddy has to contend with 4 upset animals!
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Nellie
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Great and timely tips! It's important to dispel the myth that cats don't have separation anxiety like dogs do.
ReplyDeletethanks and I sooooooooooooo agree!!!!
DeletePawsum posty Cody and those awe gweat tips. We awe rarely left behind, but when it duz happen mommy always leaves the teevee on fur us. Have a pawsum day.
ReplyDeleteLuv ya'
Dezi and Lexi
Great post Cody ! We're lucky kitties, Mum and Dad organize their schedule so that we're never left alone for a long time ; and they have almost the same schedule on workday and on vacation ! Purrs
ReplyDeletethank you!! You ARE lucky!!!!!! Please tell your Mom I am getting over to your blog soon! I feel bad cause it goes to our secondary email account that I don't get into every day. I need to try and move you to my main one so I can keep up! I am so sorry! xoxo
DeleteWe are lucky because there is almost always somebody home.
ReplyDeleteWe feel bad for a dog who lives not far away from our house. His is alone outside, in his garden, during the whole day. He keeps on barking. It's terrible, it's a young dog.
Ronrons
Hisia
you are lucky for sure!! My heart breaks for that dog. Maybe someone should tell the owner? It's possible that they don't know that the dog is as upset as it is. I would think that someone would say something. xoxo
DeleteThese are some great tips, Cody! Truffles definitely used to suffer from separation anxiety.
ReplyDeleteGreat tips! Mom leaves the radio on for us.
ReplyDeleteWe still don't like her going away every day.
She does give us attention when she comes home though :)
Purrs Georgia and Julie,
Treasure and JJ
We have grandma wif us all day long, but like our humans, we ignore her too!
ReplyDeleteEmma and Buster
Those are some great tips...even if there aren't any kids going to school.
ReplyDeleteHappy Back to School! Our unfurbro-the-younger went back to school, too...Grad School, that is, MOL!
ReplyDeleteThanks fur the info, we hadn't really evfur thought about that...cause meowmy wasn't working outside the den when the boys here were younger.