At that time I hadn't read Plan Bea but after having read and reviewed Hilary's first book, (Dangled Carat), I was full of anticipation about Plan Bea. Let's suffice it to say that at that time I had NO IDEA just how crazy I would be about this book!
I contacted Hilary on Facebook when I just had a few pages left to read, because I could hardly contain my excitement/delight with this book, here is my EXACT message:
OMG I am almost done...just a few more pages...I know the two concepts are totally different (the first book and the second), I loved them both, BUT...I am INSANELY in love with this one! OMG!!! I could NOT put it down!!!!! I read it the past two nights and just have a few more pages to go. I LOVE IT!! You are soooooooo talented!
It is rare for me to write to an author when I have finished a book to tell them how much I loved it, but with Plan Bea, I felt a huge compulsion to do so!
ABOUT PLAN BEA: FROM AMAZON:
When I first agreed to review Plan Bea, I must confess my first thought was "oh great. I have virtually no relationship with my mother and I have to review a book about mother/daughter relationships. How will I ever pull this one off?"Could falling in love allow a cold, stubborn, and selfish woman to open her heart back up to her family?
Beatrice Buchanan has spent more years than she can remember distancing herself from everyone close to her. She has no relationship with her grandchildren and the only time she speaks to her daughter is during her weekly fifteen-minute commute to the nail salon. When Bea meets Walter on a cruise she realizes there may be more to life than designer clothes and impressing the ladies at her country club.
We live our entire lives thinking we know those closest to us. But do we ever really?
On the outside, Annabel O'Conner has it all - the perfect husband, two adorable children, and an amazing job. The only thing missing is her mother's love. When Bea begs her daughter to help plan her wedding, Annabel reluctantly agrees. Little does she know the impact of her decision or the surprise that is in store for her!
This emotional and honest women's contemporary fiction novel will tug at your heartstrings and the twist ending will shock you.
You know the saying "art imitates life?" well, in reference to Plan Bea (except for the fact that my mother never frequented country clubs), it couldn't be more true. I spent my entire life from childhood until a few weeks ago, feeling as if I was not ever loved by my mother.
Let's just suffice it to say that my relationship with my mother, (for me AND my siblings), has been "challenging" to put it mildly. There have been multiple estrangements. Just before I was scheduled to read and review Plan Bea my mother reached out to me, (something she has NEVER, EVER done), and we have since been working on our relationship and things are going quite well.
When I sat down to begin reading Plan Bea I found myself saying "Oh My God" multiple times throughout this book, because there are so many things about Beatrice Buchanan, that are like my mother.
The feelings that Annabel has about her mother that Hilary conveyed brilliantly, rang true with me, and will resonate with many who have a mother/daughter relationship that is less than stellar.
Hilary Grossman has a keen understanding of people and what makes them tick. She has a particularly good take on women. Her attention to detail in both the conversations that the characters have, and their nuances is superb. Even simple descriptions like someone twirling their hair around their finger while they are thinking, or clutching a pillow and blankets to their chest, or the annoyance that Annabel feels when she speaks to her mother, are described in such a way that makes her characters leap from the pages, full of life. The characters that Hilary has so skillfully crafted are believable. They seem so real, so honest, so approachable. They are all characters that we can relate to. It doesn't surprise me, because Hilary is as honest, real and approachable as the characters she has painstakingly created. Hilary is one of maybe a handful of authors that I actually know, but had never had the honor of meeting in person, until I met her a few weeks ago. She is even more delightful in person than I imagined her as being.
The "Twist":
Let me tell you, I NEVER saw it coming!! I pride myself on being one of those annoying readers who THINKS they can predict an ending to a book (and is often correct). In reference to Plan Bea? I had NO CLUE. Let's just say that the title Plan B is a BRILLIANTLY CLEVER play on words!
There Are Lessons To Be Learned:
When you read Plan Bea.
I learned about myself AND my mother. Sometimes we are so wrapped-up and immersed in our OWN "reality", that we have no idea as to what is truly REAL. How those we may find it difficult to love often need the most love, how people have reasons for things that they have done. How our parents are flawed, as we are.
When I read Plan Bea I laughed, I cried, I was angry, I looked closer into myself and my relationship with my own mother, I ran the gamut of emotions. I did NOT want to put this book down, and I have a feeling that even if your own relationship with your mother is "perfect" (Newsflash, NO mother/daughter relationship is!!), you will be as immersed and in love with Plan Bea as I was.
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ABOUT THE AUTHOR:
Hilary Grossman loves to find humor in everyday life. She has an unhealthy addiction to denim and high heel shoes. She likens life to a game of dodge ball - she tries to keep as many balls in the air before they smack her in the face. When she isn't writing, blogging, or shoe shopping she is the CFO of a beverage alcohol importer. She lives on the beach in Long Island.
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ENTER TO WIN!!! Hilary has generously offered ONE OF OUR READERS WHO IS 18 AND OVER AND WHO RESIDES ANYWHERE IN THE WORLD the chance to win Plan Bea in ebook format. Entering is easy, simply enter on the rafflecopter below. Good luck!!!
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In full disclosure:I was not compensated for sharing this info. I received a copy of the manuscript for Plan Bea in exchange for my always honest review. I normally ONLY review books on this blog that feature cats and that still holds true. Hilary Grossman is also a blogger who has a CAT. The fact that I am blessed to know Hilary had no influence on my opinion of Plan Bea whatsoever.
This book is right up my alley - thanks for sharing and I'm adding it to my list right now!! xo, Biana -BlovedBoston
ReplyDeleteThank you for reading and I am CERTAIN you will LOVE it!! xoxo
DeleteBlovedBoston - Thanks for adding Plan Bea to your TBR list. I hope you enjoy it! XOXO, Hilary
DeleteGreat review! I'm looking forward to visiting Hilary's blog and checking out her books. Purrs!
ReplyDeletethanks so much! You will love both, but this one is her BEST!
DeleteMenagerie Mom - thank you for checking out my books! XOXO, Hilary
DeleteI know you know this, but Dad could not put the book down either. He kept reading and reading and reading. Hilary is extra special in many ways!!!
ReplyDeleteThank you for confirming that it isn't just me who LOVED this book! Yes, Hilary IS "extra special in many ways!!"
DeleteOh Brian - I love that your dad couldn't put Plan Bea down... He (and you all) are so extra special in my book! XOXO, Hilary
DeleteWow, that's one of the most glowing book endorsements ever.
ReplyDeleteit is well-deserved!
DeleteLayla - Caren is the best! I should hire her as a FT publicist! XOXO, Hilary
DeleteThank you!!! Waving paws in the air...you KNOW I DO need a job!!!! hehehe!!!!!!! I'm available! xoxo
DeleteI'm in. You do these so very well. Always so very comprehensive.
ReplyDeleteHave a fabulous day Caren. Scritches to Cody. ♥♥♥
Thank you so much Sandee, that means quite a bit to me! It is important to me that they not be like a book report. Thank you!! We send much love back! xoxo
DeleteSandee - Caren's reviews are so amazing... I love how she included her personal experiences... XOXO, Hilary
DeleteWe entered! Maybe we'll win and give this to Mommy for Christmas!
ReplyDeletegood luck!!
DeleteLola - how sweet of you to enter for your mom... Good luck! XOXO, Hilary
DeleteHilary is a great writer, I loved this book and look forward to Plan Cee :)
ReplyDeleteEllen - you are the best! I am having fun working on Plan Cee - so I am hoping you will have fun reading it... XOXO, Hilary
DeleteThat sure sounds like a great book to 'get all into'!
ReplyDeleteMeezer Mews - Thanks! I hope you enjoy it! XOXO, Hilary
DeleteThank you so much for reading and reviewing Plan Bea Caren! I am so happy you loved the book! I have read your review so many times - you totally made my day!
ReplyDeleteIt was completely MY pleasure Hilary!!! I ADORED it!!
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